PILLS CANNOT FIX BROKEN TEETH

 

Ok I need to vent….

PILLS CANNOT FIX BROKEN TEETH

 

So, for a few weeks I have been housing someone’s male cat. In that time, not once did this person provide any food for him. Not once did they help handle him to do a proper exam. Not once did they come visit him.

This cat came to me with large, hard masses in his cheeks. His teeth are broken, missing but otherwise appears healthy and has a healthy appetite. The masses are NOT abscesses, more like tumor growths. They are solid, rock hard and “float”, meaning they do not feel attached to any inside structures.

I told the person I had no steroids to give the kitty, we will call him Rotty for this article. They wanted him to have antibiotics. Rotty had no infection and antibiotics will not help what is going on with his teeth and the masses. They are not abscesses. So, I have been giving him wet food since I know he has a hard time with crunchy food.

I was able to do a full exam on him, with pictures. I sent said pictures to this person. The pictures CLEARLY show all of his broken teeth.

Yesterday this person texts me….. Wants to check on Rotty. This person is upset that I will not pump him full of antibiotics. No matter how I explain it to them they do not seem to grasp that antibiotics will NOT help broken teeth or the issues caused by them. I also explained to said person that if they wanted to drug a cat with medication it does not need I want no part of it.

So, this morning this person wakes me up… (I totally forgot to put my phone on DND)!!! This person could not wait for me to have one cup of coffee….. First, they wanted to “visit” with Rotty  which is fine, but since he is not alone in the enclosure and there is an escape artist this person knows it takes two to keep Ninja in. This person calls repeatedly after saying she will wait until I have one cup of coffee.

It is barely past 7 a.m. at this point……

So, I sit down with my coffee and my phone rings. It’s her….Now she has to get Rotty to the vet by 9 a.m……. I know it’s a lie…. Today is a holiday……So, cup crashes into the sink and I stomp out and grab a carrier. I explain to Rotty his mom is picking him up and I am sorry she would rather drug him with a drug he doesn’t need rather than do a fundraiser to get the dental he does need.

I put his carrier behind my vehicle in the driveway and I go in. She was already on my driveway to come …..zero respect for other’s requests. None. Just because you are up at 4 a.m does not mean everyone has been up and it doesn’t mean we should jump because you say so.

So, she gets Rotty only to take him to someone who will pump him full of antibiotics and NOT address the dental surgery he desperately needs. The person she took him to speaks about how she is so good with her animals. If that was true then 2 weeks ago, when I sent her the pictures of his broken teeth and explained how she needed a fundraiser for what his medical needs were then she would have done it.

She claims she hasn’t worked in two weeks. Had plenty of time to get the fundraiser posted but I guess she just sat around waiting for someone else to do it…..

Instead, she played this morning / last night as if she did not know that she was supposed to do that, she thought I was gonna write it up and post it.

Um gee, it is NOT my cat. She was given everything she needed to make a post for it and she chose not to. She does this a lot with other cats as well…. She claimed Rotty wasn’t hers… He showed up in her trap right before she moved…. Um gee ya brought him with you when you moved that sort of makes him your responsibility.

She also knew Rotty was eating wet food….. She provided none and I had to limit what I gave him since I have a senior who can only have wet food now.

She kept saying she has antibiotics for him no matter how I explain no antibiotic on the planet is gonna help him. There is no pill that will fix broken teeth or the other issues they cause. Forcing him to take antibiotics is simply TORTURE since it will not address the root cause of the problem.

The masses in his cheeks are NOT abscesses, so antibiotics are not gonna help those either. They are rock hard tumor like growths that need to be surgically removed.

But in her wisdom, she dumps Rotty at another friend’s home who WILL TORTURE this cat with medication that is not gonna help him and instead of getting the surgical dental he needs,, they will only prolong his pain and suffering. Those masses have grown in the few weeks he was here. They may grow and interfere with his throat, as in his ability to breathe or swallow. But hey, the other friend is more than willing to medicate him so yeah, dump him there.

Pray for Rotty that he will get the surgery he needs and that he does not die under their all knowing standard of care. OMFG I see now why people say what they do about the other friend she just dumped Rotty on.

Maybe I am the stupid one I mean did some pill come about that fixes broken teeth and I just haven’t heard about it???? Poor Rotty, broken teeth, swollen gums, masses in his cheeks and she feels shoving pills down his throat is gonna help.

I told her today I will not be a part of that. She knows he needs dental surgery and she refuses to listen. So, I am done helping her for good. I cannot stand by and knowingly be a part of her neglecting the needs of this cat.

She sent him away because she does not want to deal with another one dying in her presence. What she doesn’t want to admit is that Rotty will be fine if he gets the surgery. Guess making a post asking for help with the cost is too much for her……. Easier to find someone who will medicate Rotty than it is to actually get him the needed dental…

Yeah I have pictures of his mouth……. Yes she has known for almost 3 weeks……. Now, I need to cry because I know his suffering is prolonged due to this person’s stupid, idiotic ideas that pills are gonna fix him……..

 

PILLS CANNOT FIX BROKEN TEETH

I hope she can sleep well knowing Rotty will be in pain, the side effects from those pills will make him miserable and his teeth will not magically grow back or repair themselves while she insists on the pill “cure”. Yet another kitty she ignores the medical of. It is the last one I will be silent about though.

Rotty is a great kitty, sweet personality, neutered and so chill. He does not deserve this!!!!

But she is gonna be mad at me because I would not shove antibiotics into him, that I did not write up a fundraiser for her cat, that I simply asked for her to allow me to have a cup of coffee this morning.

She needs to stop lying to people. We know she never took him to the vet. We know she took him to the other friend’s house because they will force antibiotics into him.

GREAT. Make him antibiotic resistant and when he does get sick and actually needs antibiotics they are not gonna help him. Again, stupid people I swear!!!!

Why is it so hard to ask for help for his surgery????? Others were lined up to help share the post and help get the word out…… But it was too much trouble.

When you screw around and this condition kills him……. I pray you dig the hole yourself, not like the last one you let pass and then refused to bury….. Left the body until someone else finally buried it.

Ok, off my soap box and gonna go chill with my kitty clan…… They are binge watching School Spirits and seem to love Wally for some reason. I am praying for Rotty though.

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Meet Blue

 

 

Hey There peoples,

 

My name is Blue. I am a Russian blue mix, mostly Russian blue. I love food, all kinds. I am super shy right now but my story is one you want to hear. How I came to be in this wonderful place was an adventure!!!

I was born outside in Victorville. No one touched me and I feared people. Those things called cars terrified me! I spent my life hiding, hunting and avoiding the humans, until….

BOOM, one day someone tricked me! I smelled something wonderful and went to investigate. I found myself stuck in this metal contraption and could not get out! A nice lady picked me up and we had a long drive. She put me in a “condo” and touched me! OMFG she touched me! I must admit I do like the head scratches. I hated the condo though…… It had room but was limited.

The lady said I was “broken” and took me to a place where they poked me. I took a nap and woke up without my holy cherries! What kind of sorcery is that???? Ever since I have felt better, had a huge appetite and been content to allow the humans to touch me. I never imagined that I would enjoy their company….. But I do.

I prefer to be alone, but also enjoy other kitties. I steal their food when I can! I love cat nip the lady calls it “cat crack” although I’m not sure why…… Oh that stuff makes me go wild!!!! I love rolling in it.

I am still super shy, but will come around to you. I promise not to hurt you, but I am still learning to trust. I do not like the thing the lady calls a “camera”. She insists on it seeing my eyes though. She says I have “gorgeous” eyes…. Whatever that means….. Humans are strange….

I love windows, but now fear the outside. Those things that terrified me when I was a kitten growing up, now are just a memory. I had a hard life on the streets and now feel like a kitty king. I love laying on the fluffy bed near the humans feet. I am not fond of bedtime cuddles yet though. Be patient, it will happen.

I am not the best hunter, those mice were my main diet for a long time. I guess I am burnt out since the lady makes sure I have plenty of good food now. I don’t need those fast little critters anymore. I cannot promise to rid your home of them, but some days I might get one for you.

I am a quiet one, don’t have much to say. But if I purr for you then know I have chosen you, your lap as my person and my place. Are you the special person who can be patient with me as I learn to trust? I hope to be your only kitty, for a while at least. I adore kittens and can help you foster them. They amuse me and I help clean them because those wiggly things never do it right!!!!

The lady says an “adoption fee applies”…. Comment below and they will contact you….. In the meantime I will quietly enjoy this new enclosure and all the yummy food!!!!

 

Love,

Blue

 

Meet Miss Bonnie

 

 

Hello peeps,

 

My name is Bonnie and my story is one of suffering and then love. My previous owner was not so good….. They locked me up with no food or water and would not permit anyone else to provide it for me…… Prior to that I was bounced around from place to place because my previous owner was homeless or squatting….

Moving around all the time was stressful for me and I was sad. My body was thin, weak and about to give out when I was brought to where I am now. I have been spoiled here for sure. I was abandoned by my previous owner here back in 2024. My exact age is not known but a good estimate is 4 to 5 years old.

I am an orange and white kitty, active, loving and love to snuggle with you in the bed at night. I take my job very seriously too. I love hunting. Rodents, spiders, you name it I will hunt it. I used to eat them, but now I present them as a thank you for all you do for me. I hope you like the presents because hunting them is hard work.

The lady who currently cares for me does a good job. She called me “broken” and took me to a place where they poked me OUCH and I took a nap. When I woke up my belly was partly shaved and she said I was “fixed”. I have felt so much better since that nap. I am gaining weight and have so much more energy. I do well alone or with other kitties. I am ok with small dogs but not larger ones (they scare me).

The place I am now is an amazing cat paradise. I even have my own little house!!! The lady is always bringing new surprises for us. I am in an enclosure with six others, all boys. Some of them are super shy, two of them talk all the time it is hard to get a good nap sometimes!

The lady said I could stay forever if that is what I want. I am seeking a loving home, one that will be forever inside, no more roaming outside where there are so many dangerous things. You cannot imagine what I have seen in my lifetime! I want a warm bed with a soft blanket, lots of good food and treats. But most of all I want someone who lets me snuggle in their lap, plays with me and loves me forever.

I do require things to climb on and hide in. I like adventure and LOVE cardboard boxes. I love small rugs, especially soft ones. They make the best naptime places. I love windows too, so much to see. Bird watching is a favorite past time of mine.

The lady says that someone super special has to be the one who gives me a forever home because of everything I have been through. I promise to be the best kitty you have ever had and be the companion you have always needed. I do not know what an “adoption fee” is but the lady says I have one.

The lady calls herself the catlady, and I can see how well it suits her. She has saved me and given me a joy I have never known before. She said if you wish to inquire comment below and someone will send you an adoption application! But be warned, the lady said it cannot be just anyone, they have to be special because I deserve it. What does that mean?

While I wait I will practice my hunting, climbing and skills so that I am perfect for whomever applies. The lady also points a blinky thing at me so I am sure you can see how beautiful I am. I promise not to shed too much, but I love being brushed a lot.

Please inquire today, I would love to get that special forever home soon!!!

 

Love,

 

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An Interesting Conversation Last Night

 

Last night I had an interesting conversation in text with someone……

She had sent a YT video that asked for prayers, then began general chit chat asking how I have been etc…

So, when I start showing her the pix of the cat enclosure I have near finished, she proceeds to tell me how much she HATES cats and wants to unalive the ones that come around her house.

I offered to go trap the ones by her house….. She refused.

As the conversation went on she gets upset because my life revolves around the animals and all she wanted to talk about was the prayer request and getting people to repent, how we are called to get people to repent.

I pointed out that each of us has different gifts and a different calling. She got upset and argued that our only calling was to get people to repent. She did not want to hear how each of us is good at different things, meaning each of us is called to different missions. In her eyes and mind we all only have one calling.

I explained my calling to help the unwanted and unadoptable cats, she said it is the devil distracting me from God’s calling…..

I reminded her that cats are God’s creatures and my calling is to care for the ones He sends my way….. Again she called it the devils work. I explained how she sounded like the king in the Dark Ages who killed all the cats…. She said if she had it her way she would. I then pointed out how that once the cats were gone the Bubonic Plague wiped out over half of Europe. According to her the devil did that too, not the rats……

She went on about how cats will matter little in WW3….. I tried to express how they have a very important job in all times. At this point her rhetoric became almost scary, to the point of delusional so I simply said I will pray that you become enlightened about all of God’s creatures. She went off that this was not the prayer request she asked for.

My response was that I will pray that the anger in her heart towards God’s creatures be lifted. Again, she got upset about it not being what the request was for. So, again, I reworded it….

I will pray that you understand you cannot love all of God’s creation with hate in your heart. At this point she finally stopped responding. So, I lit a candle, said a little prayer and let it go.

 

I get a similar response from dog rescuers. I speak to one, in particular, who has been a little upset with me that I will NOT intake dogs, especially larger ones. But it’s on the “euth list” it needs help soon….. Ok, I do not have the set up to be pulling dogs, nor do I have the HELP. Remember, I am 56 years old with physical limitations. Some other rescuers fail to remember this point. I have large dogs of my own and they are a handful for me.

People do what they are good at, what they physically can. I am good with CATS. I will not apologize for that or justify why I will rescue feral cats rather than pulling from shelters. Ferals and strays need just as much help as cats in shelters do, mainly to prevent them from being one of the cats in the shelter!!!! So, I get them BEFORE they are sent to a shelter and put on a “euth list”……. How is this a bad thing????

I do not judge others for the type of rescue they choose to. I try to be supportive and help them network their animals….. Not one of them helps network a single kitty that I post though….. Why? Because in their eyes cats are not worthy enough of their support.

So, I will do my thing. You do your thing. We all play a part in the rescue world regardless of how some feel about cats. I will be here, teaching the kitties every day. When your rodent problem is beyond what you can handle, I have cats that can solve it for you. Thank you!

Yes, I train the kitties to hunt. No, I do not feel bad for the field mice and kangaroo rats that are sacrificed for this purpose. I trap them live and give them to the kitties. This is their purpose.

Now, I do need to get to the morning chores and spend some time with the animals.

Have a blessed day y’all.

 

 

And please remember…. If you ask me how I have been or what I have been up to….. 100% the answer will contain something about that cats. So, if you do not like cats and do not want to hear about cats…… Best advice is don’t ask! 

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*This post has been written over the course of several days…

 

I hope everyone had a safe and happy holiday season. It has been good here; no one floated away in all the rain! A new year brings many changes in life, and maturity. I have realized things need to change in order for me to stop being in a rut. I have been in a rut for a long time now and the new year has made me realize certain things need a major change.

The first change is that I am staying off social media, except to admin my groups. I have found in doing this my life has been so much calmer and happier. I have zero desire to reestablish a Facebook account after having such pleasure since my main account got nuked. I have found my life more peaceful and enjoyable so I will keep it that way.

I have made some changes already, ones that are working out so much better than being stuck in the mud. Some of those changes have dramatically made my quality of life better.

I have allowed myself to be manipulated for a while now, for that I apologize to those who were affected by any actions I may have taken while being manipulated. My eyes are wide open now and it will not happen again from the ones who had been manipulating me. I tend to want to see the good in people, overlooking the signs of how I was being used and manipulated. Not any more though, I have put a halt to it happening and will move forward from here picking up the pieces.

For over two years I have felt like I was stuck in a rut, stagnating while I screamed for progress only to see none occur. In all honesty, it felt as if I was moving backwards, making zero progress and that is not my vision for a good life or rescue. While I felt stuck, my goal for my property went unheard. It is time to get all of that back on track and move forward with the goals and dreams.

Many know I bought this property to give the unwanted and unadoptables a sanctuary for life. It was never meant to be general intake for perfectly adoptable animals. I am still stuck with two female dogs that have been forgotten about by everyone except me. One is spayed and vetted and ready to go and I still cannot get help taking pictures or leash training either of them.

I am also NOT a major dog person, yet this seems to be the only focus of the current rescue I work with. It did not matter how I begged for help with food, litter or fixing the cats here, little to none came from the rescue. I 100% support every rescue kitty on my place alone. I got tired of hearing how people did not wish to help with the cats, had other things to do, were too busy or whatever excuse it was when I would ask, so I stopped asking. But on the flip side all I did hear about is issues with the dogs……. How is it fair you want help with dogs you were begged to leave where they were, but will not help with the rescue cats? In all honesty, the dogs are personal animals NOT under the rescue, whereas the cats are rescue animals……

So, I spend time working with the shy ones, in hopes of one day making them adoptable. Progress is happening for sure Tigger and Blue are becoming more friendly. They are not yet available but will be soon.

For my FB groups, I approve posts a minimum of twice daily, usually more than that but a minimum of twice. I am also not tolerating the agitation some choose to do. I have banned one already and will ban the rest of the handful who continue trying it. I am tired of the political posts that name call, degrade, etc. You are adults and if you wish to make a political post it can be done in a mature adult manner not one that sounds like it came from junior high.

For now, though, just know the new year is rolling in new changes, positive ones and those changes will be for the good of our community. I feel good about the positive movement forward and I hope you do too.

I know I am rambling a bit, but it has been an eye opening few months and I am working on getting a bit more organized.

 

** New day same shit….

So, this part will be a bit of “I told you so”….

So, this morning you are having a bad day because I warned you some decisions you made were not good ones. Now, all I hear is how miserable the situation is…. YOUR decisions, not mine, have put you in the situation….. Not my issue to fi it for you either.

Over the last 18 months or so, I have been chatting with people to find some truth to a situation the rescue has been in. Why can’t Hooks get donations? Why can’t board members network animals? Why are some animals still here waiting for 2 years now? The answers I received were brutally honest in some cases and veiled truths in others. All said the same thing though…..

They hold you accountable for calling AC that day in October 2023 and this is why they have gone behind the scenes to hinder Hooks. They felt it could have been dealt with differently and you only called AC to spite BT. The ones I spoke with felt this and more tbh….. But they all clearly stated that as long as YOU are in rescue, they will treat YOU the same as they do BT since they feel on that October 2023 issue that you are both at fault.

This morning you tried to guilt me. It wasn’t the first time either….. For several months I begged you to do what you got paid to do, then you cried about me “docking your pay” when the work wasn’t done….. I told you I needed to focus on catching things up here, things YOU got paid to do, but refused to do or had too many excuses as to why you couldn’t, or empty promises of doing it at a future time.

So, this morning you state to me about unfulfilled promises I made to you about finishing the roof……Why would someone even try when you do not have the necessary materials sitting there? Why would someone go up on a roof in the wind? Wind you claim does not exist today…… Why am I giving said person Amazon stuff in order for them to do that job? Why is that more important when there is no rain for the next 10 days and Dave’s wife is finally home and need that camper properly levelled? You accuse many people of being a narcissist, but your behavior lately has been textbook narcissism….

According to you my stuff (which has already been waiting for over a year) should wait longer, because you want something done right this minute. You have a temper tantrum when it isn’t getting done on your schedule. Why should MY help even worry about your stuff in all honesty? You most certainly weren’t worried about doing what you got paid to do when I was begging for some of it to be done. How do you even have the audacity to stand on that soap box?

I am addressing my stuff, not out of narcissism, but out of necessity. I am sick of the situation you put me in when I dropped everything to help you and all I got from you was excuses as to why the stuff you got paid to do wasn’t being done. Once you got mad about unloading the animal feed….. I straight up asked if you needed help you said “No I’ve got this” so I went back to what I was doing. Yet, you got mad that I didn’t help unload….. Um gee, if you wanted help you should have not told me you had it.

You also chose to move Kathy up there after seeing how she behaved here…. YOU chose that knowing you had been warned of her behavior, seeing it and knowing you would been dealing with it. Stop griping to me about a choice you made that you were warned would not work out. It hasn’t even been a month yet sheesh. You wanted her up there, you made that choice so please do not gripe to me about things I warned you about. I blocked Kathy and Debi right after the move, so I did not have to listen to either of them. You said it yourself, you pawn Kathy off on Debi so you do not have to listen to Kathy. How would either of them feel if they knew that????

Now, on to another matter…… The rescue….. It cannot keep functioning this way, stuck and stagnating because of the inaction of the members. It cannot function as long as people are pissed over the October  2023 issue either.  I own my own inaction on things. I could have not helped you and worked on getting pictures, videos etc, networking etc, but anytime I asked you begged for help with other things, and I helped as much as I could with those other things. I have been financially supporting 2 dogs you were told not to pick up in the first place, going behind the board’s back and getting them and then forcing the board into accepting them since you had already gotten them.

You also used donations to get personal dogs spayed / neutered. May as well say they are your personals since 4 of the bunch are still in your possession, 3 of which had a chance to be adopted but you went to Arizona to get them back…… Yeah, I still have the 2 older siblings, why though? All of my begging for help to get pictures and videos so we could network them have gone unheard. Rehoming is NOT a priority to you, which is something BT accused you of, as have others….. So, actual adoptable rescue animals have not all been spayed / neutered because $700 in gifts went to the bill for 4 of the dogs currently in your possession…..

I need to move forward with the hopes and dreams I have for my property, hopes and dreams that you do not share. They are not a priority to you or in how you wish to operate Hooks. A rescue cannot operate when the public sees what is actually happening. A rescue cannot function when the board is acting in name only without making an actual effort.

No, I am not blaming anyone for the things I have gone through the last 2 years. It is a result of my own choices. I chose to support someone when I shouldn’t have. I chose to go above and beyond for someone who felt entitled to such help. So, now I have to pick up the pieces of the bad decisions I made and move forward, leaving those bad decisions behind me.

The choices I have made in the last few weeks have been for my own mental health and establishing or reestablishing boundaries that I allowed to be breached. So I 100% own that I am in this situation because of bad decisions, or lack of decisions.

Since I have to play catch up on the things you failed to do, things you got paid for, I will have the helper finish that part of the roof when weather permits and he works it out in his schedule. It is stupid to have him go up there when you do not even have all the materials there ready. It is selfish to even ask him to when the wind is nuts and freezing cold. Not sorry about that either…… Remember, when he comes, he is technically on the clock for ME, him offering to help you is a kindness since I am overwhelmed with what you left undone here that I am working on.

Your own actions lead to your loss of the income you had from my IHSS. Your own actions put me in a position that requires me to get these things handled now. Your own actions put you in the position you are in with Kathy. I warned you about both of them being on the same property. You refused to listen and now want to complain to me about it? You chose to have them both up there after being warned it was a disaster in the making. It is not my job to handle things with Kathy anymore. You chose that responsibility when you allowed her to move up there. You chose it so you deal with it, but do not make me listen to the gripes that you could have avoided had you simply listened.

Now I do have actual important issues to handle, things for someone who actually needs the help handling. I will be making another post about current events and future plans likely later tonight or tomorrow.

Have a blessed day folks and please consider assisting me in getting a few kitties spayed / neutered so they can be adopted!!! See the about me page for those details.

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