I will never grasp people who can find the time to text
message harass others, but cannot find the time to work hands on with the
animals they claim to be “rescuing”. It also amazes me that this particular
person thinks my world revolves around them and I should drop what I am doing
whenever they snap their fingers.
I also think it’s funny how this person spoofs numbers to
text from because she is not woman enough to use her own number anymore. But,
this too, is a pattern for her. I am not the first person she has attempted to
harass this way. It seems she has a LONG history of doing this. Sadly, she
needs help because her energy could be better spent.
I do not understand why someone like her would bother with
people like me in the first place. What threat do I pose to her? None. She is
over 150 miles away – different county, different city, yet finds plenty of
time to text me, as well as many others in this area and has gone as far as
having one of her lackeys show up in someone’s driveway to “fight” them.
So, as I sit enjoying my morning coffee, I ponder on what
has gone so wrong in her life hat the only enjoyment in life that she gets is
from bringing others down. I have spent the last couple of weeks rereading many
messages she has sent to me….. Her mental illness and inability to have an
adult conversation is evident in those messages – which will be posted soon. It
is also evident that she will do the typical leftist thing of asking one
question, yet no matter how many times you answer that question, she does not
accept the answer and continues asking the same question. She also feels that
if she talks over you, yells at you etc. it makes her right and you wrong, even
if she has 100% of her info incorrect.
I was told oh, she is just passionate about rescue. No,
sorry her behavior is NOT passion. The way she behaves represents a deep seated
anger that she desperately needs some therapy for. The funny thing is I have
never met her in person, only messaged and spoke on the phone a time or two.
Yet, this person thinks she knows everything about me and thinks she has some
right to dictate to me how to live. She also does this with multiple other
people. She manipulates her lackeys into assisting her in harassing others as
well, has one lackey who tries to play the middle, peacemaker, but sadly that
person is caught up in the web and cannot free herself.
The venom within her heart is so bitter she obviously is not
happy and cannot be happy with her own life unless she is demeaning and
degrading people she has never met. My question is why though….. I have done
tons of reaching out to others who have been victimized by this person and her
lackeys….. I am working on bringing them all together to discuss each other’s
experiences with her…… This is why this story, for the radio, is taking so much
time. Finding them all and getting them to share has been difficult at times
because some of them are terrified of her.
The fact so many people fall under her spell and do her
dirty work is mind boggling. How can they not see they are being used simply
for her entertainment because she is so unhappy, and she thinks doing these
things will somehow make her happy. The fact that she tries to impose her will
and bad values upon others only shows how much of a narcissist she is. In her
mind, people she has never met should live the way she feels is right and
pursue dreams she feels are appropriate. She doesn’t care that people have
their own dreams and ambitions, no. She must impose her own ideas of what she
feels people should be doing onto others that she has never once made the effort
to meet and have an in person sit down with.
Notice I am using “feels” and not “thinks”. I have done this
on purpose because this person is driven by a lack of emotional control. This
person acts on feelings rather than logical thinking. This person, as will be demonstrated
in the messages I will post soon, has zero control over their emotions and
cannot communicate in a logical manner. I will also be posting messages with
her lackeys, who do their best to explain away this behavior as being “passionate
for rescue”. However, many will agree that there is zero excuse for the way she
has behaved in those messages.
Truly being passionate about rescue does not include
demeaning others who also rescue. Truly being passionate about rescue does not
mean dumping animals off on fosters and boarding and then expecting others to
foot the bill for it. Truly being passionate about rescue DOES mean recognizing
many others are passionate about it and we should all work together towards the
common goal. Truly being passionate about rescue means understanding even
animals you do not personally like still deserve the same shot at being
rescued.
True rescuing is NOT selectively choosing those animals that
you can flip a buck on. The fact that this person, and her lackeys, choose only
animals that they can adopt out for a high price is not rescuing, that is
flipping. True rescuing is also accepting the undesirables and unadoptables and
giving them the same shot at a life off the streets. But, this person prefers
to deal with pure breeds, hoarding situations full of animals that may never
actually adapt and end up being euthanized because they cannot be handled or
tamed down. This person does not work with feral animals, they will trap them
and have them euthanized. This person also shit talks people who DO work with
such animals, they feel it is a waste of time and resources. This is why many
have dubbed this person the self-appointed “rescue police”. No, that remark has
nothing to do with Spicy Carolina….. Not even talking about the same person,
however that person is cin the web of the person I am referring to here.
The passion in rescue is saving that feral cat from a hard
life on the streets, giving them a safe space to be feral and being patient.
The feeling of that kitty feeling safe enough to allow you to see them, pet
them and eventually handle them is indescribable. The passion in rescue is
having a little of bottle baby kittens, knowing that all of them may not make
it, showing them love, hearing them learn to purr, seeing those little eyes
open, learning to walk, watching them follow you around and learn to “cat” is
one of the most amazing feelings in the world. Finding them good forever homes is
hard, but rewarding.
Sadly, this person would rather spend their energy on
spreading hate, dumping animals on others and being obnoxious than truly
enjoying the joy of actual rescue. This person also tries to steal that joy
from other rescuers. Several have actually stopped rescuing because of this
person, they simply could not take the constant harassment and threats any
longer. The sick thing is this person feels a sort of victory for each rescuer
that she can hound out of rescue. With the dire situation here in California
right now, every rescuer is NEEDED because of how many animals get euthanized
in shelters or die in the desert. This person does not care about the animals
though. It has never been about the needs of the animals for her.
Another thing I have not mentioned about what rescue truly
is, money. True rescue is never about how much fundraising can be done, or how
much donations one can bring in. Yes, such things are needed in rescue. It is
never the sole focus of a true rescuer, and a true rescuer rarely spends all of
their time online begging for money. A true rescuer helps the animal regardless
of the money. Sadly, the person we speak of only sees the dollar signs, as do
her lackeys. If an animal is deemed by them to not be able to bring in donations,
then they do not feel that animal deserves to be rescued.
True rescue is never about money though. This person feels
only those of equal financial status should rescue or own animals. She feels
those of lower financial status should be treated as less than human and not
worthy to be rescuers. The real facts are those of lower financial status end
up bearing the brunt of real rescuing. They take on more animals, raise less
money and do full hands on. Unlike people like her who dump animals on others,
spend all of her time bashing other rescuers while promoting her own
fundraisers to pay others to handle the animals she has dumped on others.
Now that I am almost done with my coffee and have a bottle
baby curled in my lap just learning to purr, it is time for me to end this post
and get to real word life. I know I hit a nerve with her because she feels
compelled to spoof numbers to text me from, demanding I cater to her demands.
Like I said previously, she is not capable of holding an adult conversation,
nor is she willing to participate in a discussion on the platform of MY
choosing. She wants to be in control of commenting – so she can selectively
delete comments she doesn’t like.
Have a blessed day y’all. I know I will while I do hands on
with some spicy kitties today!!! Smoky is coming around, he got neutered on
Wednesday and is doing great. He may never be adoptable, working on it though.
I will post some pix of him later today, and some of the others who are
adoptable.
If anyone wishes to sponsor the spay / neutering of the ones
waiting for adoption that would be great. The sooner they have surgery, the
sooner they can go to good homes. I will continue to get them done even if no
one sponsors them, it will just take longer since my funds are limited. See the
about me section here on the blog, it has everything you need to know about how
to sponsor a kitty. I will also post a list of the names of the ones who need
sponsored soon. Just put “spay / neuter” in the subject line, or if you are
sponsoring for feed then put “rescue feed” in the subject line. Generally, we
are fine on food but wet food and treats are always appreciated.
If you may be interested in adopting one of these kitties
feel free to message me.