Sunday Morning Coffee Thoughts

 

 

 

I will never grasp people who can find the time to text message harass others, but cannot find the time to work hands on with the animals they claim to be “rescuing”. It also amazes me that this particular person thinks my world revolves around them and I should drop what I am doing whenever they snap their fingers.

I also think it’s funny how this person spoofs numbers to text from because she is not woman enough to use her own number anymore. But, this too, is a pattern for her. I am not the first person she has attempted to harass this way. It seems she has a LONG history of doing this. Sadly, she needs help because her energy could be better spent.

I do not understand why someone like her would bother with people like me in the first place. What threat do I pose to her? None. She is over 150 miles away – different county, different city, yet finds plenty of time to text me, as well as many others in this area and has gone as far as having one of her lackeys show up in someone’s driveway to “fight” them.

So, as I sit enjoying my morning coffee, I ponder on what has gone so wrong in her life hat the only enjoyment in life that she gets is from bringing others down. I have spent the last couple of weeks rereading many messages she has sent to me….. Her mental illness and inability to have an adult conversation is evident in those messages – which will be posted soon. It is also evident that she will do the typical leftist thing of asking one question, yet no matter how many times you answer that question, she does not accept the answer and continues asking the same question. She also feels that if she talks over you, yells at you etc. it makes her right and you wrong, even if she has 100% of her info incorrect.

I was told oh, she is just passionate about rescue. No, sorry her behavior is NOT passion. The way she behaves represents a deep seated anger that she desperately needs some therapy for. The funny thing is I have never met her in person, only messaged and spoke on the phone a time or two. Yet, this person thinks she knows everything about me and thinks she has some right to dictate to me how to live. She also does this with multiple other people. She manipulates her lackeys into assisting her in harassing others as well, has one lackey who tries to play the middle, peacemaker, but sadly that person is caught up in the web and cannot free herself.

The venom within her heart is so bitter she obviously is not happy and cannot be happy with her own life unless she is demeaning and degrading people she has never met. My question is why though….. I have done tons of reaching out to others who have been victimized by this person and her lackeys….. I am working on bringing them all together to discuss each other’s experiences with her…… This is why this story, for the radio, is taking so much time. Finding them all and getting them to share has been difficult at times because some of them are terrified of her.

The fact so many people fall under her spell and do her dirty work is mind boggling. How can they not see they are being used simply for her entertainment because she is so unhappy, and she thinks doing these things will somehow make her happy. The fact that she tries to impose her will and bad values upon others only shows how much of a narcissist she is. In her mind, people she has never met should live the way she feels is right and pursue dreams she feels are appropriate. She doesn’t care that people have their own dreams and ambitions, no. She must impose her own ideas of what she feels people should be doing onto others that she has never once made the effort to meet and have an in person sit down with.

Notice I am using “feels” and not “thinks”. I have done this on purpose because this person is driven by a lack of emotional control. This person acts on feelings rather than logical thinking. This person, as will be demonstrated in the messages I will post soon, has zero control over their emotions and cannot communicate in a logical manner. I will also be posting messages with her lackeys, who do their best to explain away this behavior as being “passionate for rescue”. However, many will agree that there is zero excuse for the way she has behaved in those messages.

Truly being passionate about rescue does not include demeaning others who also rescue. Truly being passionate about rescue does not mean dumping animals off on fosters and boarding and then expecting others to foot the bill for it. Truly being passionate about rescue DOES mean recognizing many others are passionate about it and we should all work together towards the common goal. Truly being passionate about rescue means understanding even animals you do not personally like still deserve the same shot at being rescued.

True rescuing is NOT selectively choosing those animals that you can flip a buck on. The fact that this person, and her lackeys, choose only animals that they can adopt out for a high price is not rescuing, that is flipping. True rescuing is also accepting the undesirables and unadoptables and giving them the same shot at a life off the streets. But, this person prefers to deal with pure breeds, hoarding situations full of animals that may never actually adapt and end up being euthanized because they cannot be handled or tamed down. This person does not work with feral animals, they will trap them and have them euthanized. This person also shit talks people who DO work with such animals, they feel it is a waste of time and resources. This is why many have dubbed this person the self-appointed “rescue police”. No, that remark has nothing to do with Spicy Carolina….. Not even talking about the same person, however that person is cin the web of the person I am referring to here.

The passion in rescue is saving that feral cat from a hard life on the streets, giving them a safe space to be feral and being patient. The feeling of that kitty feeling safe enough to allow you to see them, pet them and eventually handle them is indescribable. The passion in rescue is having a little of bottle baby kittens, knowing that all of them may not make it, showing them love, hearing them learn to purr, seeing those little eyes open, learning to walk, watching them follow you around and learn to “cat” is one of the most amazing feelings in the world. Finding them good forever homes is hard, but rewarding.

Sadly, this person would rather spend their energy on spreading hate, dumping animals on others and being obnoxious than truly enjoying the joy of actual rescue. This person also tries to steal that joy from other rescuers. Several have actually stopped rescuing because of this person, they simply could not take the constant harassment and threats any longer. The sick thing is this person feels a sort of victory for each rescuer that she can hound out of rescue. With the dire situation here in California right now, every rescuer is NEEDED because of how many animals get euthanized in shelters or die in the desert. This person does not care about the animals though. It has never been about the needs of the animals for her.

Another thing I have not mentioned about what rescue truly is, money. True rescue is never about how much fundraising can be done, or how much donations one can bring in. Yes, such things are needed in rescue. It is never the sole focus of a true rescuer, and a true rescuer rarely spends all of their time online begging for money. A true rescuer helps the animal regardless of the money. Sadly, the person we speak of only sees the dollar signs, as do her lackeys. If an animal is deemed by them to not be able to bring in donations, then they do not feel that animal deserves to be rescued.

True rescue is never about money though. This person feels only those of equal financial status should rescue or own animals. She feels those of lower financial status should be treated as less than human and not worthy to be rescuers. The real facts are those of lower financial status end up bearing the brunt of real rescuing. They take on more animals, raise less money and do full hands on. Unlike people like her who dump animals on others, spend all of her time bashing other rescuers while promoting her own fundraisers to pay others to handle the animals she has dumped on others.

Now that I am almost done with my coffee and have a bottle baby curled in my lap just learning to purr, it is time for me to end this post and get to real word life. I know I hit a nerve with her because she feels compelled to spoof numbers to text me from, demanding I cater to her demands. Like I said previously, she is not capable of holding an adult conversation, nor is she willing to participate in a discussion on the platform of MY choosing. She wants to be in control of commenting – so she can selectively delete comments she doesn’t like.

Have a blessed day y’all. I know I will while I do hands on with some spicy kitties today!!! Smoky is coming around, he got neutered on Wednesday and is doing great. He may never be adoptable, working on it though. I will post some pix of him later today, and some of the others who are adoptable.

If anyone wishes to sponsor the spay / neutering of the ones waiting for adoption that would be great. The sooner they have surgery, the sooner they can go to good homes. I will continue to get them done even if no one sponsors them, it will just take longer since my funds are limited. See the about me section here on the blog, it has everything you need to know about how to sponsor a kitty. I will also post a list of the names of the ones who need sponsored soon. Just put “spay / neuter” in the subject line, or if you are sponsoring for feed then put “rescue feed” in the subject line. Generally, we are fine on food but wet food and treats are always appreciated.

If you may be interested in adopting one of these kitties feel free to message me.