Random
morning pondering……
So, another “rescue’
gets busted for things others seem to get away with, while smaller, struggling
rescues get trashed….. The wild, inaccurate stories that are still going around
about this LA County rescue are crazy. Funny how the inaccurate stories are the
ones that seem to spread while the truthful press release seems to be ignored…..
This
situation directly affects the High Desert because now LA county shelters are
over full and will not be accepting intakes….. Meaning a lot more animals will
be driven out here and dumped…..Thus compounding the problem for shelters and
rescues.
There is a
lot of flack being said online about rescues having a strong social media
presence for people to donate. Many are stating that if a rescue doesn’t have “live
stream” cameras, etc no one should donate. They give many other flimsy reasons
not to donate. These ideas are not only bad but damage smaller, struggling
rescues trying to raise funds to obtain such things as cameras with the ability
to live stream around the clock.
I am gonna
speak frankly about the rescue I work with for a moment. Using it as an example
of exactly what I am speaking on here.
So, in 2023
I was put on the board and discovered a lot of crazy things. Many changes were
made in an effort to fix the issues, move forward in a positive direction and
build community trust again. However, every step was undermined by social media
Karens and the ex-president. The board was in a shit position because of things
the ex-president had done and after all this time, we have still not been able
to recover from it.
Since 2023,
many other bad rescues have been very publicly destroyed, like the most recent
one. Our rescue has had several malicious animal control calls. All of which
were deemed unfounded. I even filed for open records and then posted the actual
reports, file notes from AC etc online for the public to see that those making
said allegations were outright lying. But, the social media Karens still choose
to believe the lies and perpetuate them to make themselves feel better.
Prior to the
fall of 2023, I was doing small, independent rescue with a little support from
the public. My passion is giving the seniors and “unadoptables” a place to call
home. I am also one of the FEW rescuers who will deal with true ferals. I do
not believe that being feral should result in a death sentence. I currently
have 4 true ferals, 2 are neutered and 2 girls are on the list to be spayed.
Some have followed Spicy Carolina’s story. What I have not told about her
story, and the others pulled from that colony is that they could never return
to their colony.
Carolina,
and a handful of others pulled from the Victorville colony were at risk of
being poisoned. Many threats had been made, and I had loaned traps to a friend
who lives in the apartment complex. She trapped them and I went to pick them
up. One by one many were caught and brought here, spayed / neutered and
socialization attempts began. Some responded well and have become the sweetest,
most adoptable kitties. Four however, remain true feral.
Now, how
does this bad rescue tie in? It is a simple matter of knowing when to say NO. As
a rescuer that is the single, most difficult thing to say to someone who is
desperate to help and animal. I cry at night sometimes because I have had to
tell many people no lately. I have been put in that position because of social
media Karens killing our fundraising, preventing potential adoptions and
basically spreading tons of lies that I no longer have the desire to attempt to
explain since I spent so much time on that in the past.
But I am a
problem to them. I prevented these kitties from the very fate that the Lake
Hughes animals are now experiencing. I prevented them from becoming a shelter
statistic, but somehow I am the problem. They have deemed these kitties
unworthy of public support….. Why? Because of things the ex-president has done
AND because some of them are true feral and cannot be returned to their
original colony.
I am guilty of
NOT posting tons of videos online. It isn’t because the animals are in bad
shape. It’s because my hands are full during animal care and by the time this
is done I am simply exhausted. Requests for volunteers also goes unanswered, or
filled with a thousand excuses. I stopped asking for that a long time ago. Some
have little understanding of what goes into caring for a full colony.
I will make
a poor attempt to explain what caring for a colony consists of.
1. Being responsible is the first and
most important thing. Keep male and female separate until they are spayed /
neutered. This means understanding they are escape artists and knowing how to
keep them contained. This is not easy of cheap.
2. Be responsible enough to give them
proper shelter. This means shade, safe hiding spaces, heat in the winter, warm
beds etc and cool in the summer. The cooling challenges in the High Desert are
no joke. Also not easy or cheap.
3. Proper feeding and watering also
should include pool for dogs to cool themselves in the summer, ice packs for
the kitties to curl up on, fans, extra shade but proper food and water at all
times. The best way to ensure this is tubs they cannot dump over. Dogs are notorious
for dumping bowls and smaller water containers over, so a true effort must be
made to make sure their summer water cannot be dumped.
4. Cameras are important for ME. My
cameras are cheap WIFI cameras that I can use to check the animals instead of
making a thousand rounds per day. Sometimes I will post footage, sometimes not.
I do not have any cameras that can live stream yet. One day I hope to though. Installation
of these cameras takes time to make sure placement is proper to get the best
view. This was great for keeping an eye on Spicy Carolina during her recovery
and watching her now since she hides when humans are around.
5. Socializing is the single most thing
that takes a rescuers time, energy and effort. People have zero concept of just
how much time this takes. Since I have several who need socializing, my day is
spent sitting in their enclosures and allowing them to come to me, when they
are ready. I do NOT force socializing on the four true ferals though. I allow
them to be what they are. One, Nels, is now allowing me to see him and watch
him enjoy the new outdoor catio we just built off their camper. For the dogs,
which thankfully at the moment, I have zero except my personals, it means
sitting with them, walking them, giving them tons of love since they likely
came out of a bad situation. Socializing takes HOURS upon hours a day and is
the single most exhausting thing a rescuer does.
6. Keeping the spaces clean is also
important. It doesn’t mean a spotless area because that is impossible, even for
someone with OCD. Rescuers know it is messy and our days mean we clean a LOT of
poop! It also means we inspect said poop to monitor the health of our animals.
It also means sometimes a dumped food dish may wait until the next day to be
swept up, litter boxes may wait a day or two to be scooped or changed. But
clean spaces are very important for their health! This is also very important
in the summer because of flies and the smell.
7. Emotional health of the animal is
important. Giving them challenges and stimulation is important. Animals get
bored easily which can turn into massive behavioral problems later on. This is
why I have went above and beyond my own bodies capabilities to give them
catios, tons of toys and things to occupy them. I am presently working on “electric”
dog enclosures and will be testing that in the next couple of weeks. The cats
now have a 10 x 10 enclosure for the ones ready for adoption (meaning those
already spayed, neutered, vetted and ready to go), as well as the smaller
enclosure built for the ferals to enjoy the outdoors safely. Failure to address
an animals emotional health usually results in a bad outcome.
8. Understanding when to say no is
important. Lately I have received so many calls from people asking me to pull
dogs off the “euth list”. Saying no is difficult, right now I have no place to
put a dog since all of my enclosures are occupied. Even if I had one open I
have run into the problem of once the dog is pulled little to no support comes
in for it and the promise of a foster falls through. I have seen other rescuers
end up with dogs that cannot be adopted out after doing such pulls. So, for
someone like me, a small struggling rescue with little support and no reliable
volunteers, knowing when to say no is very important because the animals care
is taxing work and lots of people talk a good game online but behind the screen
do nothing.
9. Struggling to get donations while
seeing scam rescues / rescuers using the funds for their personal piggy bank.
Yeah, this one ticks me off and I know others see it too. One rescue I worked
with, who does husky dogs has a hoard of huskies, no kennel license and
blatantly uses donations for personal living. I will not name that rescue, but
they are in California and do raise near a quarter of a million per year while
the dogs suffer. It breaks my heart to know people will give to such obvious
donation abuse while small rescues, like the one I work with, struggle for even
the smallest donation. I find it so hypocritical that people preach about spaying
and neutering yet ignore requests for donations for such things. How can you
preach about it and then send your donation to people using it for vacations,
fancy clothes etc? I also see the same people doing this trashing small rescues
who do ask for help spaying and neutering…… The hypocrisy can be sickening at
times.
These are
just some of the thousands of things that are important in rescue. Of course,
vet care is on that list. So, where does our time go to be on social media? I
scroll when I am resting and find it hilarious that some rescuers obviously
spend more time on social media than they do with the animals. Then, those same
people judge people like me and claim to know everything about me, some even
claim to know more about me than I know about myself….. I even watch the self-appointed
judges claim to know more about medical / mental than doctors…… I get a good
laugh and continue scrolling because those type of people are no longer worth
the effort. I have also noticed those type of people tend to group together on
social media…. Folie à deux
The one that
I least understand though is a “rescuer” who was CONVICTED of animal abuse more
than once, spreading obvious lies (proven to be lies), still is believed by the
little clique on social media. A good example is how this person made false
allegations to animal control. AC found those allegations false and the person
who called is STILL perpetuating the lies even though I posted the full AC report
publicly.
You see,
people do not grasp why I choose to live where I do. Take Lake Hughes as a good
example. I know having a rescue means disturbing neighbors. I have lived in
areas where dogs barking 24 / 7 is very annoying. I have lived in areas where
feral colonies were out of control and the outdoor smell was unbearable. I am
also a domestic violence survivor who found that the quiet out here was what I
needed.
I do not
have much, but what I can do is leave something for the animals once I am gone.
I worked hard to get the little that I do have. I joke and tell people this is
the animals home and they let me live here because they have no thumbs. In
reality, this is the truth. I am trying to get some back bills caught up, establish
a trust so that this property goes to furthering the dream of a sanctuary for
the seniors and unadoptables. The struggle is real while rescues like Lake
Hughes and the convicted animal abuser obviously have more time online than
doing the rescue they brag about.
I have seen
many good suggestions about how people should determine who they donate to. I
agree on transparency, but in my case, full transparency has not resulted in a
single donation to assist with spaying and neutering let alone any for daily
care. So, I see a lot of hypocrisy there too. No, I do not spend tons of hours
making videos or posting tons of pictures. Why not? I am disabled and my body
only permits me to do so much in a days time. All of my requests for assistance
in getting said pictures or videos have gone unanswered, so few are done.
My question
is this….. To those who demand transparency, why ignore the needs after
transparency has been given? That is the exact definition of the hypocrisy I am
speaking of. It is also narcissism at it’s finest. These people make one unreal
demand after another while holding the promise of donations as a hostage. No
matter the hoops they will never keep their word, so I have chosen not to
engage with them any longer. Sadly, this choice on social media also results in
those who follow such nonsense not donating.
Now it is
time for me to do morning rounds…. A little bit late today. I will pray that
people’s eyes open and see our need to cover spay / neuter for the few left
here who need it. I will pray people will be touched to send treats, catnip,
wet food for the seniors and anything else they feel touched to donate. Most of
all I pray for a reliable volunteer who is as passionate about these animals as
I am.
Have a
blessed day folks I know I will!
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