Sandy Rakip Drama and Bullshit - Jealous much????

 I spent half the day yesterday, after being FORCED to block her number because she has ZERO respect for STFU and stop blowing up my phone with bullshit even Google can't translate. I think damn near 9 hours of tweaker texting bullshit is not only uncalled for but outright harassment.

I also spent the better part of the day trying to figure out WTH her problem was. The just after dark 2 answers came. Sandy herself told one and then the other was a message sent to Kim via Denise (I think).

So, let's begin with Sandy's revelation. I previously wrote and article about people who try to micromanage and control others remotely. Sandy IS that person. Somehow she thinks she is the boss of everyone and they must bow and scrap to her. When someone goes against what Sandy has demanded then Sandy goes apeshit. In her mind no one can survive without her, no one can do shit without her having to micromanage everything.

Sandy tried that shit with the 102 year old on the hill and NOW I see why Iva got so testy with Sandy!!!! 

The problem with Sandy trying to micromanage everyone else is that she cannot even manage herself! While she is blowing up my text and several other people's phone she has belongings literally sitting in my front yard that have been drowned in monsoon rains MULTIPLE times and she flat refuses to even give an estimate date when she will come and take care of her own shit.

She antagonized Iva and her sons so much she got her ass tossed off that property with no other real place to go. I did NOT have to help her, but out of the kindness of my heart I not only helped her I arranged helpers for the heavy stuff and someone to help move the big shit. This is where it gets interesting too! Now Sandy did ASK for help with the heavier things and to move the motorhome etc..... So, every time the help got up there SHE would disappear and not show back up until everyone was done for the day!

Sandy spent her time on the phone of pilfering through Iva's shit and refusing to respond no matter how we hollered or called her on the phone - so we loaded what SHE told us needed to go and the help even graded the road in the process! But all she did was gripe and bitch about how that was done. I told her when someone is there to help you and you do NOT stay to at bare minimum supervise, then you have zero right to complain considering SHE paid little for that help the vast majority of paying them came out of MY pocket. 

Several days I sat in the truck - not long after my foot surgery - waiting for HER to load the truck. Sandy was more interested in picking fights with her ex, calling the cops on them and then disappearing when the cops actually did show up - leaving me to handle speaking to the cops. Apparently telling the cop I have no idea where she took off too you go find her is not amusing to them.

Sandy has ZERO cash income of her own and lives on the kindness of others. For years she was supported by Iva, now 102 and no longer supporting her. Sandy loves to tell everyone else what to do with their $$$ but refuses to take steps to get her own income. She also acts like everyone owes her even if a small debt has been repaid several times over!! In her eyes the debt will never be repaid and she will CONSTANTLY try to throw it in your face to extort more money just to get her to STFU. Sorry, I will no longer be manipulated that way.

Because Sandy thought she ran everything on the hill, she tried that shit when she first got to my place. She thought she would run over me the way she did Iva and do whatever the hell she wanted and boss everyone around. When she realized that shit didn't fly with me she took off to her son's house and hasn't been back for over 2 months. Nor has she given me a concrete date when she will come and take care of her own shit that is getting ruined in the rains we have had!!! But oh will she cry about that shit once it is tossed because it got ruined!!! She will play poor me they tossed my shit whatever shall I do woe is me!!!

Those games may have worked with Dave, Iva and Kim but like I told Sandy and Kathy - I am not Iva and I will not put up with the bullshit drama. I did not ask for it. I did not want to be put in the middle of Sandy's war with her baby daddy. But, Sandy's narcissistic need for attention is driving everyone else to cut ties with her. Even while she sits her ass at her son's house she cannot control her jealousy over her ex - Kim.

Yesterday I got accused of FUCKING her ex!!! Kim's wife Kathy and I had a good laugh over that one!!!! When I showed the text to Kim I though he was gonna choke of his water. 

Sandy is controlled by a green eyed monster. She was so  jealous of what Iva built up on the hill she did EVERYTHING she could to sabotage Iva's happiness and ability to live comfortable. She will also tell you straight up she feels entitled to that property "for everything she did for Iva". She was never married into the family and the agreement for her to reside there was she had to take care of the place. Well, considering the amount of pix I personally have I can prove she didn't take care of shit the way it needed to be - nor did she care for Iva properly.

Now she is trying the same shit with me. She knows my property is paid off free and clear and she thinks she is entitled to something. She forgets how many times I took care of her dogs when she took off without telling anyone leaving Dave to care for shit - knowing damn well he wouldn't.  She forgets the times she took off leaving Iva ALONE without telling anyone and Debbie would call me to ask who was checking on Iva since Sandy was at her son's house and Iva was home ALONE.

Sandy forgets all the food banks trips, gas and tons of other shit that has been given to her in the last 3 years. Sandy forgets all the shit that has been done for her that she cannot even say thank you for!!!! Yet she will say "pay yer debt" every chance she gets over a few bags of cat food from 2019 that has been reapid several times over. Gee Sandy maybe YOU should pay your debt!!! Right now you are sitting on 2 and a half months back due rent, and there will be clean up fees if you do not come and take care of your shit that is sitting in the weather!!!

This brings me to how Sandy and Cortney Lewis tie in together. Sandy would be considered Cortney's aunt - the mother of Cortney's cousin but had never married Kim. So, Sandy loves to spend all day on her phone gossiping, creating drama to entertain herself because she has no real life. Sandy and Cortney are BOTH ticked right now because their little plan to scam Iva out of her property backfired in their faces. Cortney's issue has been dealt with in multiple blog posts, but Sandy ties in because she had planned to move in with Cortney on the hill and take Iva's property because they both feel entitled to it.

Sandy is the sole issue over the problem that arose with Cortney online crying about the animals maybe being dead. Sandy called me and DEMANDED I go up and check on them. Sandy also DEMANDED i use my own feed and water to care for said animals since poor Cortney didn't have any. I was NOT asked to - I was TOLD to. Because I care for animals I did go and check on them and found them in BAD shape. YES I called Animal Control - which Sandy was PISSED and still IS pissed that I went against her DEMANDS and called animal control!!!

So, now, Sandy is all flipped out over that I have no idea why because I have ZERO idea what animal control said or did to Cortney and I don't care to know!!! But, poor Cortney is all stressed and somehow that is supposed to be my fault???? Sandy is flipping out on EVERYONE because poor Cortney is all stressed.

Cortney made her own damn bed with her own fucking bad decisions. I had nothing to do with that. I even helped arrange a ride for her to go up and retrieve her shit that Kathy & Kim had put out on the sidewalk!!!! I could have said nothing and let them toss it all in the dumpster but I didn't. I got word to her and helped arrange help loading too! But somehow I am the bitch bad guy?!?!

Sandy sits around high, imagining shit in her head thinking it's true the same way Dave Lewis did. She then calls and texts people these imagined ideas swearing they are true, only so she can cause drama to entertain herself or for her own self serving needs. She does this when she is NOT the center of everyone's attention OR when someone goes around her ex.

Sandy cannot stand to NOT try to run everything and be in charge of bossing everyone around. The sad truth about this is she cannot even manage her own life but she wants to run everyone else's.

So, nice to know Sandy is accusing me of fucking her and being the source of poor Cortney's stress but in all honesty that is all Sandy's creation. Sandy needs to take care of her own shit and stop causing untrue drama for others!

Let's use an example. I allowed Sandy to store some shit in my old RV. She knew this was to be temporary and she would need to get the stuff into her own motor home ASAP. She also has a shit ton of stuff sitting OUTSIDE that RV in the weather getting ruined. She has been asked for over 6 weeks when she will come and take care of her shit. To date she refuses to answer - instead she begins picking fights to sidetrack from her responsibilities. 

Almost all day yesterday I asked her at least 30 times when she will be coming, give me a concrete date. She refuses to answer the question. She thinks she can use me for free rent and storage the same way she did Iva and the same way Cortney is trying to do with Kim right now. They both get all stressed when they are pressed about handling their responsibilities!!!!

Sandy is putting me in a position where I will have no other choice but to handle the RV issue myself. Then when I do she will cry and bitch because it wasn't done HER way. She did that when we helped her move. MAYBE is she had helped load or unload instead of disappearing then it would have been done her way!!! But she cannot even be thankful to the people who got it done!!!!

Unfortunately, I have to cut ties with toxic people for my own mental health. Sandy is toxic to EVERYONE. It took her blowing up my phone for over 8 hours yesterday - with mostly unreadble texts - for me to realize I do NOT need that bullshit in my life. But when she accused me of fucking her not so EX - ex that was the icing on the cake. She literally did not stop blowing up my phone until I blocked her number and TOLD her I was blocking it.

I have also decided to leave it blocked for a while. She can still message me on Facebook if she needs to but if she abuses that then she will be blocked there too. 

I have gone above and beyond to help Sandy - even post surgery with my foot in a ortho boot I was helping her load her shit!!!! I am sick of not being able to handle my own shit because Sandy creates so much drama all anyone can do is attend to the self seeking attention drama she causes. 

Done is done with me and I am done. 

 

FYI Sandy you tried to drive Iva into her grave to be rid of her because you were sick and tired of being stuck with her - your own damn words. Then you come to my home and try that shit with me?!?!?!Iva KNEW you supplied Dave with meth and other drugs that the two of you used together!! She KNEW and you hated her for it!!!

 

You will need to find someone else to create drama with and micromanage now good luck with that? What you really need is long term live in rehab to get clean. MAYBE then you can see what everyone else does. Until then I am done with you.

 

Last thought though - when someone calls Animal Control or CPS those agencies will do NOTHING on contact with the reported party UNLESS they see something with their own eyes to make them continue the case. ALL the call does is create a knock at the door. ANYTHING after that is at the feet of the person who opened that door. So, to be all pissed off at ME for calling animal control to make sure SOMEONE was doing welfare checks on those animals on this hill when Cortney refused to is just bullshit!!! You could have taken care of those animals yourself but your are in Victorville trying to boss everyone else around. You have no idea what is going on here since you are not here yet you THINK you can demand us to drop everything to cover Cortney's ass about the animals. Sorry, but real life does not work that way. People have other responsibilities and should NOT be forced tot ake on other's responsibilities.

So, the fact that animal control is keeping an eye on Cortney and the animals is on HER not me. Her being all stressed is on HER not me. I have been trying to help locate someone with a truck to help her get her shit from on the hill. Don't believe me? Ask Jon......

I am sick of the blame game over their bullshit and it stops here and now.