What to do what to do.......... Doing the adult thing isn't always pleasant that's for sure!!!!

 

Gotta love it when someone gets caught in their own bullshit and tries to play the victim….

 

I allowed an old friend to move into an RV on my property. The agreement was they would help me prep for 2 major surgeries, through said surgeries and recovery. In exchange for low rent, transportation etc.

This friend failed to mention that they were heavily into devil worship. Lucifer IS satan aka the devil – not your best buddy, not a good guy who got a bad rap…..Beezlebub and Astaroth are the other 2 parts of the unholy trinity……You claim to have Astaroth inside of you…. Made sigils and oils…. You spend hours talking to them…..

This friend claims to be in contact with Solomon’s 72 spirits AND that she can and is in control of them…..

This friend says that Astaroth wants to be her Dominant and collar her…. She already wears a ring dedicated to him on her thumb…..

This friend refuses to see the this IS devil worship. She refuses to see that Astaroth is FEMALE not male…. She refuses to be educated on all the death and destruction these particular spirits have caused….

This friend became very defensive when I asked someone to smudge the property.

This friend did little to truly help around here. Most of the time she was on her phone doing who knows what. Once she hooked up with some guy from an app, brought him out here, for random sex. He was obviously on speed and admitted to it.

When asked to do something she acts like she cannot hear you, or needs to do something at her RV that ends up taking hours.

This friend thinks that having my IHSS worker do her laundry is her right. He is NOT paid to help her. He is paid to help me. When he does do her laundry it’s out of the goodness of his heart, not because he is supposed to or getting paid to. She doesn’t even supply laundry soap, bleach or anything.

Her coming her was NOT supposed to create more work for me, it was supposed to ease some of it. But, that is sadly not the case. She rarely cleans up after herself. Less than a week ago I dug nearly a whole case of bottles and cans out from under my rocking chair. This was AFTER I had asked her to get them out. They were hers. She is the only one drinking Gatorade, coke and dr pepper. Even though the Dr Pepper was supposedly purchased for me, I only had one can out of a 12 pack.

She acts like such the victim on social media. But she IS a grown adult who doesn’t like to clean up after herself, gets all pissy when you interrupt whatever she is doing to try to get her to help and thinks the world owes her a free ride.

I made her an amazing offer. Come help and after the surgery I will deed you 1 – 2 acres. All she had to do was actually help me around here. But, that is something she truly hasn’t done. She has made more work for me though and that is not cutting it with me.

Winter is coming. There are things that MUST be done before rainy season. But that doesn’t seem to matter to her. Not only will she NOT help she likes to distract to keep me from getting shit done. So, I have lost a month in winter prep due to her lack of help and distraction.

But, somehow she is the victim.

The fact that she did NOT disclose to me precisely what she was into as far as the devil worshipping goes seriously bothers me. I am Christian and I think she did not disclose it because she knew I would forbid it.

Today things went seriously haywire. She is up on the hill assisting with a 100 year old who cannot be left alone while the other helper is away until tomorrow. She began blowing up my text this morning when she learned my IHSS worker did NOT take her laundry. When I explained why it wasn’t taken (we weren’t sure which bags since she has so much stuff just sitting around) she became angry.

She threatened to leave perm. I am not one to take a threat and told her to hit the road. I also have forbidden anymore of the devil worshipping on my property. To be honest I have not yet read the vast majority of shit she blew my text up with today, not sure I am going to either. But it got so bad that I literally had to block her number to get some peace.

Since she got here I have cooked for her, cleaned up after her and her cat, drove her around, allowed her to use my car until she took it and decided to drink while she was out, provided for her needs and what do I get in return? Her talking shit about me to anyone she can.

You came to MY home bringing evil with you. YOU chose to be slothful and lazy when you KNEW the deal was to help. Good example, it has been weeks since she arrived and she still has stuff in my driveway. The winds here are FIERCE and I have warned her to get it put up or she will be picking it up across the desert somewhere. It still sits in my driveway…..

She sleeps until noon most days, longer than that some days. She sits for hours after she wakes up playing a game or whatever on her phone under the guise of having the coffee. By the time she is done with her “morning” coffee it is literally supper time and almost dark. I tried being patient, waiting on her to help me, but little was getting done. I also cannot do much work in my home with her parked in the rocking chair.

While she has been caring for the neighbor, we made one simple request. Clean up her house. I even brought cleaning supplies, drano, etc. Nothing was done when I was up there yesterday, except the dishes. She can’t find the toilet brush, can’t find the broom, hasn’t attempted dusting and wiping things down. She says she has a chest cold, then when I said she wasn’t bringing it in on me all of a sudden she was feeling better. NOW it’s the neighbor is sick…..She was fine when I was up there. She was fine when her daughter in law took her to town.

It has been lots of excuses as to why she can’t do this or that. Some may think I’m a bitch, but I am 50, disabled and tired of the bullshit people feed me to take advantage of me. If I cannot get your help NOW as I prepare for surgery… How the hell can I trust you to care for my animals or me during recovery from it?????

Did you think you could come here, do as little as possible and I would just let it slide????

Sorry but that isn’t how it works. I require someone I can rely on during this time of my medical need. Obviously, I cannot rely on you, therefore the RV needs to be vacant for whomever I find that I can rely on. If you consider that bitchy, well it is my property. I am the one who has put the blood, sweat and tears in out here with little help. It is my right to choose who may or may not reside on my property.

I choose that the evil you worship shall NOT be permitted on my property. It is your choice whether you continue with the evil that is destroying your relationships with everyone who cares about you OR you choose to cast it out, denounce it and learn to live a blessed life.

Your situation IS of your own doing. You need to be mature enough to own up to it. Stop playing victim and grow the fuck up.

If you continue on the path you are on it only leads to destruction. You will be alone with no one who will help you, no one who wants to be around, no one to call when things are tough. These demons will isolate you, destroy your relationships, your life and every aspect of it. Look what it has done to OURS – 18 years….. But you choose the ones who will utterly destroy you. It IS your choice of course, but it IS my choice whether or not I wish to associate with it or have it on my property.

I choose NOT to associate with it. I choose to denounce it from my presence and my property and every aspect of my life. I choose to not have it on my property. That IS my choice and my right as the property owner.

You have some serious decisions to make. Ones that are beyond my ability to help you with. Regardless of how hurt I am, I do wish you well and will pray for you. But this cycle cannot not continue. I must have reliable help so I can focus on my surgery. You have chosen to not be reliable, therefore the agreement we had has been violated and considered null and void.

I wish this would have worked out, but your actions and behaviors have made it impossible to continue this way. Trust has been broken and it is not easily restored.