For Cortney Lewis........

 

There is nothing worse than a self-righteous hypocrite.

You want to look good on social media griping about the “shit care” your grandma gets….

You gripe and accuse people of deliberately getting her sick….

You love to tell people how she should be taken care of……

You issue orders, demands and all manner of orders on how to care for her……

You wanted your dad’s debit card before his body was even cold…..

You were pissed that it disappeared and no one knew where it was or would fetch it for you…..

You knew your dad was neglecting, emotionally abusing, financially abusing your grandma and you did nothing…….

You knew your dad was destroying your grandma’s home and all you did was bitch on social media about those who were trying to fix the house and stop the destruction…..

You knew your dad was a danger to your grandma and although other begged you to help you refused….. always excuses…..

You love to make yourself look good on social media but when was the last time you even seen your grandma in person???? When was the last time you took the initiative to call and check on her????? Or do you just see shit on social media then get all self-righteous to make yourself look good – look like you actually care????

You wanted nothing to do with your dad except to find out about the property…… You want to make a pot farm out there….. Your dad told you that you could…… But you do not realize laws in California state no pot farms in unincorporated areas so your dad lied to you about that…..

You like to look good chastising those who are actually caring for your grandma……When was the last time you cooked her a meal??? Cleaned her house???? Changed her pull ups???? Ran her errands???? Spent time with her???? Did her laundry??? Dealt with one of her major dementia episodes???? Chased her down when she is on her meds and decides to run off down the driveway???? Given her a bath???

But you like to look good on social media….. Make people think you actually care about your grandma and not just getting that property so you can delude yourself thinking you can set up a pot grow out there…..

You demanded to have a boyfriend install solar up there….. Even though you were well informed the wiring in that house will not support a solar system…… But you wanted to look good on social media….. You never even went up there to see the wiring but insisted your boyfriend could magically make everything work…… But you never even went up there……

You act like you know everything about your grandma….. You act like you know what’s best for her….. When was the last time you met with her nurses? Talked with her doctor? Dealt with her medications? Taken her to any one of her many appointments? Done any type of assistance with any of her medical needs???? But you sure like tot ell others how things should be when it makes you look good on social media huh????

 

 

I have posted previously about your lack of involvement with your own grandma…..

But what you have done this time goes beyond insulting….

You have ZERO right to talk shit about the ONLY 4 people on this planet who have been caring for your grandma!!!

Yes everyone of us are sick….. 1 tested positive for covid, your grandma tested positive and 2 of us will be tested next week…… Regardless of how those tests turn out – the fact that all of us are sick and we still take care of her matters…… Why? Because your sorry ass loves to talk shit on social media to look good but you will not come up to her house and actually do a single thing…… Now that she tested positive for covid we are the only ones who can care for her until she tests negative!!!!

But you wanna talk shit about her caregivers…….

You have no right to do so until your ass comes and changes her shitty pull ups that she has dug her hands into and smeared shit all over herself!!! You have no right until you cook 15 different things to please her because she cannot make up her mind what she wants to eat…..You have no right until you have hand washed her shitty clothes and bedding that she hid and you didn’t find it until the shit was dried and set in……. You have no right until you come up and put in the effort of actually taking care of her!!!!!!!!!!!!

The day you begin doing half of what we do then you might have the right to complain about the care she is getting. Without the 4o f us your grandma would be up on that hill alone because your sorry ass runs your mouth without backing it up!!!! All these wonderful things you will do for her (mentioned on social media but never put into actual action)….. Said to make you look good on social media while you trash talk those who are actually doing the things you promise to do…..

All you wanted from your dad was his debit card… his money…. Before his body was even cold you were threatening to call the cops to retrieve it….. Not realizing that he set his beneficiary as his mother – not you – so you couldn’t touch whatever he had in his account…. Only your grandma can……

All you want from your grandma is the land….. You want to make a pot farm….. You believed your dad when he said they already have the permit…… He lied to you, there is no permit because it is illegal to have a pot farm in unincorporated areas of California…..But it is all you talk about – wanting the property or about all the things Denise took…….How this or that was supposed to go to you…..

Who the hell cares what goes to who? I mean seriously? Your grandma is dying of loneliness and all you can do is talk shit online when b=visiting her and letting her see the baby would do her a world of good. But that don’t matter to you because it will never happen….. Even though you have the means to do it – you won’t……

You talk shit online while you wait for her to die so you can pursue obtaining that land…… Sorry to inform you but she signed that land over to hospice…..They will liquidate it to pay her bill because her own blood family who lives local would not bother to try to care for her…… But they wanna bitch about her current caregivers and how they are gonna fight hospice to get the land…..

If you cannot come up and see her or put in the effort to help care for her during her end of life care then you have ZERO right to gripe, ZERO right to receive a thing when she does pass away and ZERO right to try to claim the land!!!!

Hospice is aware of what you are saying you are gonna try to do when she passes. They are aware you want the land and talk shit about suing them for it…… You have ZERO legal leg to stand on where that is concerned.

You talk shit about her caregivers all the time but you will not care for her…..

We are the ones making sure she is clean, fed, warm, clothed and comfortable…… We are the ones making sure she has what she wants and needs. We are the ones dealing with her extreme episodes and being hit, kicked, pissed on and shit on. We are the ones who give her hugs and comfort her. We are the ones doing for her the things her blood family should be dong but won’t.

So, take your self-righteous bullshit and shut the fuck up!!!! You have ZERO idea of what goes on at your grandma’s home daily…. ZERO idea of where to even start when it comes to how to care for her….. The ONLY thing you know how to do or have even done in 3 damn years since I have been here is run your mouth on social media and ALL 4 of us caregivers are getting pretty sick of it.

We begged for your help after your dad destroyed her home and it was so much we really did need help cleaning up and fixing everything. Excuses were all we got. But we got it done didn’t we? Even when I made the album to show the world how your dad treated your grandma – to call out Adult Protective Services – all you could do was act like a victim (when you could have helped prevent what went on and you refused)…… FINALLY APS did step in and make sure that he could never move back in!!!! We did that without any input from you!!!! The hospice nurses and her social worker finally made that happen!!!!

Remember when you wanted to become her payee? What makes you think you have that right when you never even call to see how she is doing???? Yup, made damn sure the social worker and hospice nurses knew you talked about that too….. How could you be financially responsible with her money when you never even speak to her or call about her???? They agreed….

You are nothing but a money hungry selfish brat. You do not care about your grandma. All she is for you is something to make you look good n social media. You use her to make yourself look like a victim and suck up to people who could care less about you.

When she is gone you will regret not spending time with her like we do. We get her best and worst, but at least we have the honor of hearing her stories and spending time with her. We get the honor of knowing her love and her anger. We suffer with her loneliness and try to comfort her when she cries for her family that will not come and see her. We do that and we do not complain a bit about it.

When she has a rough month financially, we take outta our own pockets to make sure she is taken care of, even if it puts us in a bind. But you talk shit about her caregivers as if you even have a clue as to what actually goes on at your grandma’s house…..

I do hope that when she is gone that your regrets eat you alive….. The same for how you ignored your dad when we begged for your help with him….. We never told either of them about anything you promised to do because we knew you never would, so we did not want either of them to be disappointed…..

I do have other things to do today, so I am getting off the soap box now and shoving it up your self-righteous hypocritical ass!!!!

Take your shit talk about your grandma’s caregivers and go tell it to someone else because we are sick of hearing all the lies you cook up to make yourself look good on social media!!!