Jennifer Boarts - Cease and Desist, and more....

When YOUR addiction becomes someone else’s problem…

I am writing this in hopes that ANY addict might see it and realize just how their addiction affects other people…

If this little article can make just 1 addict understand, then it has done well, even if the particular person I am writing about doesn’t see or understand this article….

Let me tell you how I met Jennifer Boarts and her boyfriend Kyle….

I saw an ad on FB marketplace for some large barrels and I needed water storage (not drinking water). So, I contacted the seller and when I arrived at the oil change place Jennifer gave me several things.

Jennifer and Kyle were being evicted from the oil change place she was trying to open and operate…. They both seemed highly disorganized in their packing methods… But nice enough folks…. I saw they had an RV and were living in it behind the shop.

At that time I asked where they planned to park it and offered my property IF they would assist me out here with the things I physically cannot do…. They said they would think about it. After that whenever I went into town I would stop by the shop and visit. Sometimes I helped them pack a few things, but mainly just checking on them.

Then poof they disappeared for months – Jennifer never replied on FB messenger so I really had no idea what had happened to them until they literally drove up into my yard one day. As they pulled in the RV engine gave out – literally blew the radiator. I asked Kyle to park it where it currently sits.

At first Kyle helped a little…. But they were more concerned with running the roads in town and barely here – never for more than a couple of hours. I then learned they had been staying over at the local hotel.

When my generator went out in April they were supposed to take it to Harbor Freight in Victorville since Barstow didn’t have one and didn’t now when they would get one in. I paid for the trip, gas money and some for food. They left here around 11 am….. They didn’t know the way so I explained cutting through Apple Valley would be the quickest and would leave them with plenty of gas left over considering how much cash I gave them.

Remember, at this point they were living at the hotel and only coming by here randomly… Since I could not lift the generator they offered to make this run for me. This was on a Saturday. Until this day I had no idea either of them used but I had suspicions.

What should have been a quick 2 hour round trip turned into a 2 day thing. Instead of using MY directions they decided cutting through Stoddard Wells would be better…. Ended up totaling their car. Around 7 pm they made it back to MY place without their car or my generator. I had to drive near dark literally MILES up an off road trail to retrieve my generator so it could be exchanged the next morning.

As Kyle and I cleaned out their car and loaded things into my jeep I keep seeing syringes and tried to talk to him about this. This would have been April 4^th as I recall. He blamed them off on Jennifer. Said she was “recovering” and just had not cleaned the vehicle out….. Now this vehicle had so much crap in it that even my jeep would not haul it all!!! We ended up leaving a lot behind.

On the way back to my place I spoke with Kyle about how I felt about drugs being around me or on my property. He assured me there wasn’t any. I spoke with Jennifer as well once we returned as she unloaded her things from my jeep. I left the generator inside since I had to take it to Victorville the next morning.

This was the FIRST time they BOTH verbally gave me the RV and promised to get it cleaned out AND the last time Kyle was ever on my property that I am aware of.

Once she had unloaded they took off back into town and I sat and reflected on several things that started to make sense. The next day I went and exchanged the generator and informed Jennifer verbally she had until July 1^st to clean out the RV. She agreed to have it done and to locate the paperwork so I could get it transferred to me.

Jennifer would come by periodically, randomly, and take a couple of things, say she was gonna take a nap and then rush off after a few hours. How she managed to put anything in her Sebring I have no idea – the thing was ALWAYS loaded to the roof every time she brought it up here. I never saw her load much at all to be honest.

During this time she acted like her and Kyle were having issues and I kept telling her she could stay in the RV. She had so many excuses it wasn’t funny and this is when I realized she is not “recovering” she is still actively using. Jennifer told me her drug of choice was heroin. But in her messages she admits to speed as well.

My life was turned upside down because many of her things sat OUTSIDE the RV and every time the wind blew I was the one out chasing it through the desert and putting it back under the RV. The cats came and went inside the RV since it wasn’t secured properly and they kept bringing me syringes…. Then one day Pikachu came to me with one stuck DEEPLY in his paw….. I went off without naming names….

The next day Jennifer shows up and swears to me that ALL of the drug paraphernalia has been removed from the RV….. I did not go inside to make sure….  Since I was allowing her to store things in it – with a hard out date of July 1^st I wasn’t going to invade her privacy that way. I WANTED to trust her and believe her.

On that day she was reminded both verbally and in text of the hard out date.

I did accept many calls from her when I would text her and ask about her plans of getting her things out. I listened to some of the craziest excuses on the planet. It was still April and she was saying it’s too hot, she had PMS, no gas money even though I offered a few bucks if she would just come and make some progress on it….

There were a few nights I permitted her to come well after 10 pm to accommodate her since she felt it was too hot in April…. She took very little, complaining that the small flashlight wasn’t enough light to see by and she just had to find Kyle’s beans…..

By this time in text she has agreed to giving me the RV and promised to locate the paperwork…. Every time she would come up she said she would find the paperwork and give it to me – and every time she never even bothered looking. Jennifer was consumed with finding Kyle’s beans….

Jennifer often arrived with “gifts” – things she dumpster dived for. Any clothes she claims she gave keep in mind she is a size 14 / 16 I am a size 4 / 6 so I passed those to people who they actually fit and got nothing out of them. She has given me no real food – a few bags of rice is pretty much it.

Jennifer’s drug use was fully apparent by May. She made a point to wear short sleeves and shorts to show off old track marks on her legs and arms and tell ME to look, see no fresh ones. I would remind her both verbally and in text about the hard out date of July 1^st – unless she chose to actually reside it in to help me out here.

Jennifer always promised it would be done by then. She would disappear with no contact for weeks at a time and during that time the cats made a game of getting in the RV and bringing me syringes….

Jennifer cannot admit that HER habits endanger MY furbabies….Which in turn stresses ME out because I have no idea what the hell was inside the RV or those syringes. Jennifer kept saying they were empty…..

As May flew by and Jennifer kept promising to clean the RV out and get rid of the drug paraphernalia my patience began to thin. When she came out she constantly just set things outside the RV or under it – which then the wind would blow all over the desert. I had to go out and pick it all up which should have been HER doing it – but it was too hot, she had PMS….

One day in June I returned from a short trip to find the RV door standing wide open. I texted her about it and got no response. I glanced inside and saw a literal disaster zone, but I secured the door and did not enter the RV at that time. Jennifer never even bothered to reply to the text about me finding the door wide open…. I also reminded her time was running out the hard out date was approaching. She failed to reply which was par for the course with her.

She did not come out at all in June except 1 time with a guy named Tony and they were in his truck. At that time he even tried to encourage her to load it all up, he would help her. But Jennifer grabbed a couple of milk crates that were right inside the RV door and nothing else. Jennifer kept complaining about it being too hot, she was getting nauseous and needed to go lie down.

That was the last I heard from her until AFTER the hard out date had passed and I entered the RV and took pictures on July 2^nd.

I DID message her multiple times warning that I would be entering it on July 2^nd. I warned that I would begin cleaning it out, boxing up her things and having a mutual friend bring them to her.

Jennifer began blowing up my inbox wanting to come out after midnight – dark outside – when one of her PREVIOUS excuses is that she couldn’t do it after dark. I went off on her no lying about that. I had already consulted the sheriff about the matter and according to law after July 1^st it is considered abandoned property and I didn’t even have to give any of it to her. That I was going above and beyond by having a mutual friend bring the things to her.

However, this mutual friend has been out of state on vacation and cannot take the things to her for another week – she KNOWS this…

He agreed he would take the things to her – she KNEW this as well.

So, it was all arranged to reunite her with her important things and STILL is….

Jennifer is now still wanting to come out at ungodly hours – twice this week alone she blew my phone up after 10 pm demanding to come out – at which time I told her no (not so nicely) and called the sheriff to report the ongoing harassment on the matter and gave Jennifer the report #

But this did not stop her and she kept trying to CALL – I reminded her text was the only way so it is all documented and she went silent for a while. Then, just before 2 am she began blowing up my phone again telling me she was on her way out here. I once again called the sheriff WHILE she is blowing up my phone with threats and they assured me of the law on the matter and instructed me to block her – which I did.

Now, how does her addiction affect others….

During these months I have been so stressed about all the needles the cats kept bringing me since it endangered them.

I listened to her lies and excuses about getting the RV cleaned out – which never happened.

I felt like she was using me for free storage – until I finally began cleaning the RV out and realized she had been cooking dope in it… THEN I was really stressed and pissed.

Jennifer has also been blowing up Greg’s phone WHILE he is on vacation to rest and visit his daughter – she cannot even respect his vacation time to bother him with her perceived crisis. She is obviously jealous of his friendship with me. She has even threatened to try to force Greg to end his friendship with me. LMAO

But, during all of this I am hurting myself physically as I clean the RV out…. Then I remembered she was always looking for “Kyle’s beans” so now I am still on a mission…. I WILL find Kyle’s beans because I am sure they are still in there otherwise she would not be having a hissy fit about ME touching her things….

But, her constant calling to Greg during his vacation is disrespectful and rude when she knew arrangements had been made once he returned from Detroit. But Jennifer wants it her way and wants it now or else…

HER addiction issues have cost me time, money and pain as I deal with the literal SHIT she left in that RV. I found the paperwork and will have it transferred over since it is already signed by HER to ME. She at least did that much before she shoved the paperwork so far under the sink it was nearly hidden.

But I felt as if she had been using me for free storage when she SAID she has a unit in Upland…. As well as much of her property stashed all over Barstow….

It has been a bit of a relief to finally be getting that thing cleaned out. It isn’t as bad as the pictures look – it is really is in great shape considering how Jennifer and Kyle treated it.

All of her lies, excuses and carrying on is for what? I mean what the hell is still in that thing that is worth all this fuss? I will find out once I am rested….

Some of the items are not worth sending to her and are being disposed of – I mean seriously trash is trash – but a speed freak cannot understand the difference….

Some items are being sold to recoup MY losses and somewhat compensate ME for being forced to do what she should have done before July 1^st. Fair is fair. Her personal mementos will be sent to her but that nasty pile of clothing I am NOT sorting…. I have no idea what all that slimy goo on it is but those will be burned!!!! The sad thing about having to burn her trash is it CANNOT be composted due to the drugs…..Even after burning it the residual chemicals might still remain and contaminate whatever I grow. So, I will be left with ash that I will have to use to fill in tires far away from the yard – or send to the dump which will cost $$ since you have to pay to dump at the city landfill….

But here is what is MOST stressful – I know she sneaks up here and grabs a few things while I am asleep….

This morning her blue suitcase she was screaming about, and 2 tool boxes are gone….. Only she and I knew those toolboxes were there. We had covered them up and they were WELL hidden….

So, why not grab it all since her sneaky ass comes while I am asleep to get stuff???? She screamed about important blankets – piled right outside the RV but she did NOT grab those… The children’s pictures were sitting in the RV sink where I had picked them up off the floor – those are still there…. But she grabs the 2 toolboxes and a suitcase……

The toolbox next to my storage camper has also been cleared out….. but the box is still there…..

THIS is how someone else’s addiction affects other people…

While I sleep, Jennifer is sneaking up here after being told not to come on the property – yes I have it on camera :P gotta love night vision :P So she cannot blame it on anyone else….

But here is the part that ticks me off the most….

Ivory has a BAD habit of jumping in cars when the windows are down. She is solid black and at NIGHT would be damn near impossible to see….On camera I can see Ivory get INTO Jennifer’s vehicle but NEVER get out…..Ivory has been missing since Jennifer’s little 3 am visit…. Ivory is PREGNANT and not a good mother! I had already been preparing to bottle raise them….. WHERE IS MY CAT?????

This is Ivory’s home. Ivory has EVERY right to be out in the yard. Jennifer KNEW about Ivory jumping in cars when the windows are down because SEVERAL times she and I had to shoo Ivory out of Jennifer’s car before….. WHERE IS IVORY?????

Jennifer’s habits have now cost me 2 cats – plus the kittens Ivory is currently pregnant with….. One cat is dead, the other missing….

How would YOU feel if a tweaker was creeping around YOUR place while YOU slept…. I wonder if she found Kyle’s beans yet?????

This is my last warning to her – stay off my property!!!!

As of NOW I am considering what you left behind on your 3 am trip as abandoned….I am considering that sneaky little trip up here as YOUR last chance to get what was important to you…. EVERYTHING else is now considered abandoned and will be dealt with as such.

I am not going to have Greg bring anything over to you since you chose to violate my demands about staying off my property.

You came and gathered what you wanted at 3 am and what is left now is abandoned. It is that simple.

My business with Jennifer Boarts is done. Further contact or trespassing on property will be dealt with in a court of law.

Consider this a publicly posted CEASE AND DESIST order.

1.    Stay off my property at any hour – stop sneaking around while I am asleep

2.    STOP harassing me via text or calling and stop doing so via Greg