Things that Piss me Off in Chat

All right I need to mention a few things that are really beginning to irritate me in chat.

1. I will say this once - I HAVE NO WEBCAM, NO SPEAKERS, NO MIC SO STOP ASKING ME!

I am really getting irritated at a certain someone who I ignore but he keeps creating new nicks. How hard headed can a person be? What part of I have no webcam is difficult to understand?????

2. If an online Dom wants to see me via webcam then such Dom will need to provide me that cam. Simple. Do not sit there and think you can order me to go purchase one. You have not collared me, you do not own me and just because I am a slave does not give you the right to boss me around. Only the one who collars me has that right.

You should also be respectful when you see that my nick says AFK / sleeping / away / busy etc. The fact that I am a submissive does not give a Dom the right to disrespect me. If I tell you that I cannot chat at the moment it does not give you the right to smart off to me with such things like "slave you do not have permission... etc". As I have stated only the one who collars me has that right.

I do my best to be polite and respectful to all who pm me. That effort is sometimes tested to my limits by those would be online Dom's who truly do not have a clue what the lifestyle truly is. When an online Dom tells me they have no clue what TPE is, that says to me this is a game for them. There are other little clues some would be online Dom's use that send up the red flag telling me they have nothing more in mind than a quick online wank off session.

It is creeps like this who give this lifestyle a bad name. Thus, I hang in chat and weed them out. Yes sometimes they irritate me to no end and all I want is 10 minutes of peace and quiet, true. I also note certain types of "speech" in chats and watch for these when new nicks pop up.

3. I am going to clear a common misconception about myself here. Some seem to think that I am an online slave and have no real life experience. I have been interested in BDSM since an extremely young age. My first expeience with it was at the age of 14. I have been writing BDSM fiction since the age of 16.

In a very real sense for the last 20 + years I have lived a TPE Relationship. I am well versed in this particular area and truly get offended at times when a would be online Dom tries to convince me they know what it means, when they cannot even tell what TPE stands for. These people are uneducated in the lifestyle and should study what they claim to live. No I have never been formally trained or "broken". But between my life and my research I am more skilled than you could possibly imagine.


4. Another pet peeve in chat - those would be Dom's who wish a role play session which serves only their own needs. These types of Dom's have a serious misunderstanding of what this lifestyle is. You see, regardless of D/s this lifestyle is about the mutual enjoyment. Trolls seeking only to pleasure themselves are no more than simple minded perverts. There are MANY such in IRC chat, many who have also learned the hard way about trying that crap with me. You see, a submissive, regardless of basic sub or full slave, has dedicated his/ her life to serving. Their reward for such service is to be pleasured by the Dom they serve. Thus would be online Dom's seeking only to pleasure themselves are not true Dom's.


5. Yes, I have Dom tendencies and would probably be correctly labelled in real life as a SWITCH. My preference is slave, but certain situations require me to Dom. I have also discovered this has been quite helpful when I pen my novels. I can think from both sides of the coin.  Yes, at times I release this inner Dom on those trolls who are too hard headed to pay attention to what is typed into their window.


These being only a few of many topics Iwill be posting here. Check often for updates and announcements on upcoming new novels.

ET aka - mischievousslave / turner28

*And when I tell you not tocall me Evelyn or Eve respect that. Call me e.t. as I have suggested.